Okay I just finished up now on one of the questions that I wanted to focus on in the book. It had to do with how people deal with other children during the grieving process. It seems that a lot of people have guilt that they focus all their attention on the person that has died and not the other family members.
So I thought it would be interesting to get some insight from spirit. Basically they mention to keep the lines of communication open. This way you allow the others to grieve on their own schedule but also let them know that you still love them and that you're still thinking about them.
Openly, considerately and compassionately.
They also had some great perspective on the interaction dynamics of various friends and family members.